Everything starts with flirting, flirt is crucial thing that leeds to act of sex. Without flirting you can't make connection and relationship of any kind and ther is no sex.
Every day you will pass at least by one beautiful woman who would consider getting naked with you. Open your eyes a little wider and you might just see her. Experts say that most womendecide whether they’d like to get naked with you in first 4 minutes of meeting you. There are now more single men and women than ever before. So what’s going on? Well, you give off the wrong signals a lot of the time; even when you’ve got that right, you lack the ability to read her subtle signals. Lack of reading non verbal signals results in hundreds, if not thousands, of missed opportunities.
In one study undertaken by the BBC, men were twice as likely to categorize facial expressions incorrectly when compared with women. And yet, when scientists assessed what women were checking out when they met a man, 55 % of their first impression was based on body language, 38 %on the tone and speed of your voice, and a paltry 7 % what you’re actually saying!
Silent Signals –non verbal sings of attraction
You’ve got a few minutes to convince a woman you want the ''job'' and that she should consider you for the role of lover.
Believe it or not, a woman will try to size up what’s in your underpants in the same way that you check out a woman’s breasts or behind when you see her. Most women had no idea they did this. What is she looking for? A reasonable-sized package of course(average penis size is approximately 15cm (6in))! So get a proper-fitting pair of jeans and give all the girls something to look at. Remember, your success depends only 7% of what you actually said, and it is over 50% of your body language.
When it come to silent signals it’s all about two divisions:
Body language
If you’re not convinced your package is big enough, don’t worry—there are plenty of other ways you can use your body to attract a woman. The way you stand, for example, will tell her what you’ll be like in bed. One foot behind the other says you’re a bit shy or nervous; a wide leg stance says you’re feeling confrontational; and standing with your feet hip-width apart, facing toward her, says you’re just right. Your back and chest give out even more messages: a stiff, upright posture will make you look like you’ll be unloving and quite possibly uptight; sticking your chest out too far will make you look as though you’ll try to dominate; rounded shoulders make you look lacking in confidence; and letting your stomach hang out makes you look like you just don’t give a s*it. Take a deep breath then exhale, and your shoulders will naturally drop back and down and your chest will fill out; lift your chin a little so that you look confident and open; and only ever put one hand in a pocket—two makes you look like you’re playing with something in there. And to give her even more to look at up top, rather than down below, keep your hair in great condition. Don’t be put off if you haven’t got much of your own hair—a closely shaved head is equally sexy. Touching your shaved head as you talk to a woman is a sexy move. The scalp is an incredibly erotic part of the body—just ask any woman who gets a regular head massage at the hairdresser. Moving your open hand over it, from the nape of the neck upwards, is damned sexy, because it draws her attention to an erotic part of your body, your neck.
Wearing
Think about how your clothes feel as well as look, and you’ll find women getting a lot more hands-on with you. How your clothes fit is really important, too. She doesn’t want you to look like you spend hours in front of the mirror—she just wants to see that manly body under all those layers. Best advice is to ask a female friend to come with you to advise. And one final word of warning: be extremely wary of leather clothing. Like fast, red sports cars, leather jackets usually contain unattractive men trying to look good/young/rich.
Don’t forget your shoes. It is a cliché for good reason, women do judge you by what’s on your feet. Caring about how the shoes work with the rest of your outfit, and keeping them clean and relatively new-looking, shows that you pay attention to detail. That’s attractive in a man
Giving off “stay away” signals
Sometimes you inadvertently give out the message that you’d rather not meet a woman—this is never more so than when you’re with a big group of mates. Men in a big group, particularly when they’re laughing loud and hard, are unlikely to find much success (by “success” here is not mean on mauling a drunken girl; it's referring to attracting women wich can make conscious decision.
Studies revealed that men in groups are more competitive and display competitive behavior; this helps to raise testosterone levels, which makes you more aggressive and louder. While these traits might help give you raised status among your male friends, they’re likely to scare potential girlfriends off. If you shake off some mates, you’ll get far more dates.
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Every day you will pass at least by one beautiful woman who would consider getting naked with you. Open your eyes a little wider and you might just see her. Experts say that most womendecide whether they’d like to get naked with you in first 4 minutes of meeting you. There are now more single men and women than ever before. So what’s going on? Well, you give off the wrong signals a lot of the time; even when you’ve got that right, you lack the ability to read her subtle signals. Lack of reading non verbal signals results in hundreds, if not thousands, of missed opportunities.
In one study undertaken by the BBC, men were twice as likely to categorize facial expressions incorrectly when compared with women. And yet, when scientists assessed what women were checking out when they met a man, 55 % of their first impression was based on body language, 38 %on the tone and speed of your voice, and a paltry 7 % what you’re actually saying!
Silent Signals –non verbal sings of attraction
You’ve got a few minutes to convince a woman you want the ''job'' and that she should consider you for the role of lover.
Believe it or not, a woman will try to size up what’s in your underpants in the same way that you check out a woman’s breasts or behind when you see her. Most women had no idea they did this. What is she looking for? A reasonable-sized package of course(average penis size is approximately 15cm (6in))! So get a proper-fitting pair of jeans and give all the girls something to look at. Remember, your success depends only 7% of what you actually said, and it is over 50% of your body language.
When it come to silent signals it’s all about two divisions:
- body language
- wearing
Body language
If you’re not convinced your package is big enough, don’t worry—there are plenty of other ways you can use your body to attract a woman. The way you stand, for example, will tell her what you’ll be like in bed. One foot behind the other says you’re a bit shy or nervous; a wide leg stance says you’re feeling confrontational; and standing with your feet hip-width apart, facing toward her, says you’re just right. Your back and chest give out even more messages: a stiff, upright posture will make you look like you’ll be unloving and quite possibly uptight; sticking your chest out too far will make you look as though you’ll try to dominate; rounded shoulders make you look lacking in confidence; and letting your stomach hang out makes you look like you just don’t give a s*it. Take a deep breath then exhale, and your shoulders will naturally drop back and down and your chest will fill out; lift your chin a little so that you look confident and open; and only ever put one hand in a pocket—two makes you look like you’re playing with something in there. And to give her even more to look at up top, rather than down below, keep your hair in great condition. Don’t be put off if you haven’t got much of your own hair—a closely shaved head is equally sexy. Touching your shaved head as you talk to a woman is a sexy move. The scalp is an incredibly erotic part of the body—just ask any woman who gets a regular head massage at the hairdresser. Moving your open hand over it, from the nape of the neck upwards, is damned sexy, because it draws her attention to an erotic part of your body, your neck.
Wearing
Think about how your clothes feel as well as look, and you’ll find women getting a lot more hands-on with you. How your clothes fit is really important, too. She doesn’t want you to look like you spend hours in front of the mirror—she just wants to see that manly body under all those layers. Best advice is to ask a female friend to come with you to advise. And one final word of warning: be extremely wary of leather clothing. Like fast, red sports cars, leather jackets usually contain unattractive men trying to look good/young/rich.
Don’t forget your shoes. It is a cliché for good reason, women do judge you by what’s on your feet. Caring about how the shoes work with the rest of your outfit, and keeping them clean and relatively new-looking, shows that you pay attention to detail. That’s attractive in a man
Giving off “stay away” signals
Sometimes you inadvertently give out the message that you’d rather not meet a woman—this is never more so than when you’re with a big group of mates. Men in a big group, particularly when they’re laughing loud and hard, are unlikely to find much success (by “success” here is not mean on mauling a drunken girl; it's referring to attracting women wich can make conscious decision.
Studies revealed that men in groups are more competitive and display competitive behavior; this helps to raise testosterone levels, which makes you more aggressive and louder. While these traits might help give you raised status among your male friends, they’re likely to scare potential girlfriends off. If you shake off some mates, you’ll get far more dates.
Feel free to post your comments!
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