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Feb 28, 2011

Giving compliments

   Giving compliments is easiest and best way to tell your woman how special is she. You don’t have to be genius to give compliment, it only have to be in right time and said in right way. Think about how you feel when someone give you compliment… this few words boost you up so give compliments to women. It will help you in your flirt stage and it will lift sexual confidence. 

   Compliments build self-esteem and in some way we are all addicted to receive good compliments. Take giving compliments as another weapon in your arsenal.  This is stupid but some people value their self based on received compliments and you can take this as your advantage and increase her self-value just by giving her few nicely words told in right moment. It is important that you don’t push too hard with compliments; you don’t have to give millions of compliments it may be few but worthy. If you know with words you can be magician in communication because right words at right time can change your life generally. Women like to hear nice things about them so go use it in your interest. When you say compliment to her it must be direct and smooth, you must tell it with attitude so your compliment will get right power to boost her.  When you push with compliments it can lead that you look needy and she will see you as beggar; you don’t want that. If woman is beautiful in general don’t compliment that because every other man does it, be original and give compliment about details on her (like nails, hair, neck, robe…).

   Compliments are maybe the powerful thing because when you build self-esteem of another person by giving compliment at the same time you build yourself confidence because you manage that other person feels great just by this words you told. This is not way to her pants, this is just help to improve picture about you.

Feb 22, 2011

Casual relationships are better

   Where to find your sex partner and how to get her notice you is one major and important question. Your sex partner can also be your friend (friend with benefits). Personally, it is better to have casual relationship then standard relationship because right now in this stage of my life I can’t committed to one person only, maybe this is just a phase and maybe I will always be like that, so now I have my best girl friends and I have sex and when I want I have sex beside and there is no bad fillings. It is just SEX; it is PLEASURE (like chocolate). 

   Let’s get back to point, one of easiest and simplest way of finding your sex partner (if you think sex could destroy your relationship with girlfriend) is online. There are bunch of dating sites and other people who also look for sex partner, not relationship. One great advantage of casual relationship is that you will get lot more experience than from standard relationship because this is open type and you both only want sex, exercise and experience and off course physical pleasure  which is not disturbed by emotions. While you find your sex partner online try first to create friendly relationship instead looking for sex in your first seconds of introduction; be detailed in your search if you want to find exactly what you want and when you find your match don’t bombard her with boring and predicable messages so don’t send message like:
  •     “Hey Baby, What’s up?”
  •     “Hi, check out my profile and let me know if you are interested.”
  •     “Hi, you are so beautiful. How about I take you out to eat at your     favorite restaurant?”
  •     “I know that I am probably not your type, but if you would just give me a chance then I will show you that I’m the nicest guy you could ever meet.”

Good luck in your sex partner finding, I truly hope that you will find what are you looking for, one more thing I need to say – DON’T LIMIT YOURSELF, be high roller; what you can lose, you can only hear NO and move on.

Feb 17, 2011

Short answer to ancient old question

   Key to be success with women is to know WHAT WOMEN WANT! What women want is ancient old question and answer is reviled long time ago. Even if they are very complex creatures the answer is simple; they want all and by that I mean they want to be center of your world. Most women can be impressed by smallest gestures of sincerity and sensitivity. Men and women are so different in ways of thinking, even if we arrive to same conclusion, men and women will take completely different paths to get there. You must accept this in order to have success.  

    For better understanding of women I recommend that you talk with your girlfriends everything you want to know, talk to few girlfriends ask them everything and then you evaluate what is in common for all of them so you can bring your conclusion. It is very important to talk with your girlfriends because you will find out how they think.  

Feb 14, 2011

Conversation is crucial element for successful flirt

    Many people have problem whit starting conversation especially if it is with someone who attracts you and successful conversation is one of the crucial elements of successful flirting. In order to achieve successful conversation you first need to overcome your fear. Don’t let your fear cripple you and stop you to meet your next sex partner or just friend. When you wish to meet someone don’t fear it, enjoy it, just relax and be spontaneous. You must learn and improve your conversational skill and only way to it is by practicing. 

     Important thing is that you must avoid silence (it kills the mood) and don’t ask too many questions and don’t make your questions sounds like you make interview.  Conversation is your attacking tool so you must control way of conversation and don’t forget to monitor non-verbal signs (reactions and body language). In conversation flirt eye contact is something you simply MUST DO but you have to say I WANT YOU whit your look and you must be confident. It is all about attitude. Conversation must be fun because you must be interest speaker and not boring, and when you make her smile you are on half way to success, be creative and create your unique style of humor. 

    There are so many topics to discus so avoid topics like politic or religion because they might cause you problems. You must learn and improve your conversational skill and only way to it is by practicing. Look for opportunities to practice and exercise your skills. Every time when you start conversation whit someone new it must seems to be natural and pleasant and always presented with smile.

Leave your EGO beside, don’t involve him.

Feb 10, 2011

Your secret weapon to get her to orgasm

   Making love can be scared but also tender and fun act. Making love create emotional bond between couple which can be broken by inability to last longer. Many guys want to improve their sexual stamina and last longer, thinking this is the only way to fulfill partner.

   One of the keys for not lasting longer is that you are unsure or too nervous in the bedroom. Solution to this problem is gain sexual confidence. Not last longer really is’t major problem as you think because it is not about in which time you leaded your partner to orgasm, it is HOW DID YOU LEAD HER TO ORGASM. Having this thought on mind ability to last longer is important to have great sex but IT IS NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT. Most women don’t even need that long penetration because they tend to dry out from constant thrusting then it starts to hurt.
Way to women orgasm is not in penetration, it is in what you do before. Lots of studies have shown that more women get orgasm from oral sex and foreplay then from intercourse.

   I will share with you one sneaky trick now so read carefully. When you finis too soon women can think only two things: you are really lousy or she is too hot. Most likely is the she will firstly think that you are really lousy, only because most of women are insecure about themselves so you can use this to fix things. Just simply tell her that SHE IS SO HOT and you couldn’t control yourself. By doing this you will raise her confidence (she will feel comfortable and secure about her sexuality) and you saved the situation.

You should pay attention to the techniques that get her sexually – charged before intercourse. Master this and you will get your needed confidence as great lover. 

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Feb 5, 2011

Some basic techniques for last longer

   If you read this blog you are not selfish guy and you care about woman needs and pleasure, using techniques described in previous posts you have chance to a great lover. For your better sex life you need to practice and trying new stuff, your mission as great lover is to give woman explosive orgasm and unforgettable moments but you also need to give this pleasure to yourself. First of all you need to stop premature ejaculation, and you will achieve it by reducing friction because primary cause of premature ejaculation is excessive stimulation (by friction of glands below the head of penis) so you have to reduce the friction. 
   Reduce the amount of friction once your inside, it sounds boring but it DOESN’T HAVE TO BE, one good move is to gyrate hips slowly or try clockwise circle rotation using penis and of course monitor her reaction, she will told you when you hit the hot spot. Many women usually love slow love this is great technique. Withdraw your penis out for short time while before you feel that you are going to come, cool down period of just 1-2 minute can lead you to possibly 15 minute extra time in sex, use your finger or tongue to maintain her mood while you cool down. Another proven method is to masturbate while before you intend to make love, but if you do this to early you may not be solve the problem, also you can practice trough masturbation so you will find out what works for you(which moves and speed are best for you). Never stop stimulation, just vary the intensity.

Women really do appreciate longer lasting love so premature ejaculation is serious problem in man population and we have to deal whit it.

Leave your comments for this post or suggest some future topics that you will like to read about.

Feb 1, 2011

Your brain control how long you last!!!

    Today we can find lots of pills, creams and desensitizing sprays which will give you extra minutes during sex but the PROBLEM ISN’T IN YOUR PENIS…it’s your brain. Your brain control how long you last, not your genitals. When you learn to park a car, your arm muscles provide the energy to turn the steering wheel. But it is your brain that tells your hands where and how to turn! In the same way your mind controls the outcome of the kind of sex you’ll have. This is fundamental, but so many men don’t get it. YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK. Your mental associations have a far more significant impact on sexual stamina than you believe.

   Problem is that many men don’t know HOW TO CONTROL their ejaculatory reflexes. Beating early ejaculation is skill and you can improve it by “trainings”. Even porn stars are NOT naturally gifted with ejaculatory control, their power in bed are improved by proper practice. Some targeted techniques like as synchronized breathing, mental manipulation, and ejaculatory muscle exercises are great ways to improve your stamina. These methods can easily be learned on your own at home. 

   Sexual competence breeds sexual confidence. Most women love guys who have the courage to face up to their own sexual inadequacies. Continue to improve your sexual skills and techniques, all with the aim to give her sensational orgasms each time you make out with her.
Sexual Confidence Is the KEY for great sex experience, and your brain have BIG role in your sex performance. 

In one of my following post you WILL LEARN some techniques for ejaculation controlling.


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