Kissing is universal language.In kissing, just like language, your “sentences” should never be too long that you run out of breath.
Just like you use words to express yourself, kissing can say a thousand things, it also tells a potential mate whether or not she wants to take it further. Kissing is your key to convincing any woman to get into bed with you.
Chemical reaction in your body is intense, and it’s all because your body is preparing for sex. A simple kiss requires 20 muscles to coordinate. The hypothalamus in your brain activates neurons; the pituitary gland secretes hormones to target the ovaries and testes; and a release of dopamine, endorphins, and phenyl ethylamine is triggered, and attaches to pleasure receptors in the brain, giving you a feeling of giddy euphoria. Chemical cues are sent through the spinal cord, and then the adrenal glands begin to produce and secrete nor epinephrine and epinephrine (otherwise known as adrenalin). This in turn increases your heart rate and hastens the breakdown of glycogen in your muscles and liver, to help provide you with energy for the sex to come.
The moment your lips meet hers, several decisions are made: will she go to your place? Will you see her again? Will she fall in love with you?
What will her lips tell you?
Looking at the mouth of someone is sign of atraction to them and it is instinctive, and most people do it without even realizing it.
Count how many times she does it in between looking at your eyes—people who are attracted to each other tend to move in a near-constant triangle from eye to eye to mouth and round again. The handy thing about this is that when you lean in to kiss her, she’s prepared because she’s focused on your lips anyway. Watch two people kiss and see how their eyes wander to each other’s lips just before hand.
If her eyes are locked on your lips, your runway is clear for approach. Just make sure it’s a soft landing.
When you kiss someone new, your body releases dopamine and norepinephrine, two natural stimulants that give you that feel-good rush. Over months, as you get used to kissing each other, your body doesn’t release the same amount and so it doesn’t feel quite so exciting anymore—the result is that you both tend not to kiss for as long and often as you used to.
One kiss every day for better relationship!
There’s a direct correlation between how much time you spend kissing and satisfaction in the relationship. In fact, psychologists can predict a break up on the basis of lack of kissing and cuddling, in a marriage. If you kiss her only before you want sex, that genuine intimacy is lost.
Kiss her when she least expects it. It’s guaranteed to make her smile.
Lip language is key to arousal and gives her a good sense of how you feel about her while you’re having sex.
A look from your partner can trigger memories and fantasies within the brain. Signals from the visual parts of the brain are transmitted to the hypothalamus, where they influence the start of sexual behavior. You can’t buy that effect with any gift.
Kissing is great for so many reasons: it’s not just for sex; often it can say “Sorry” more effectively than a thousand words. But to work it’s got to be genuine, and if you’re saying “Sorry,” tongues are banned.
By kissing you’ll release some feel-good chemicals reactions.
Never, ever kiss her during an argument if she’s talking. In a woman’s mind, it’s the equivalent of saying, “Shut up, you silly bitch.”
You must explore her's lips, tongue and face, so that this kiss begins to feel amazing.
Let your lips meet, kiss, let her open her mouth, then allow your tongue a little way into her mouth, then part your lips a little further, exploring her tongue with yours more fully. Always move away very slightly every now and again so that you can both breathe.
Try not to get hooked on having your tongue hung up inside her mouth: too many men forget to punctuate their tongue swordplay with closed or partially closed kissing. If you stick at open-mouthed kissing for too
*Practice*
Get hold of a very ripe peach or mango and take a bite, then kiss and lick the flesh without breaking even the smallest piece off but while still getting a taste of the juice, if you’re barely managing to lick off any juice, it’s too soft. . That’s how you should kiss a woman, kissing her is like eating delicious, sweet fruit, you’ll earn extra points for an original complimen if you tell her this.
How to kiss her? Strong or soft!
One of the biggest turn-ons for women is for a man to be very attracted to her, to be passionate but to hold back a little, making her want him even more. You’d be surprised to discover how many shy kitten-like women turn into tigers when they’re teased a little.
There are times for hard, powerful kissing and times for soft, gentle kissing. But as a general rule, soft, explorative kissing and touching is going to arouse her far more.
By diving in and going for full explorative thrusts with your tongue, you’ll give her the impression you’ll be like that in bed, too. She’ll imagine a guy who won’t bother with foreplay and will penetrate quickly.
Kissing is the most erotic thing you can do to a woman. Ffive of the twelve cranial nerves that affect brain function are involved when you kiss. Kissing her is a sure fire route to getting her fully aroused and wanting sex.
Kissing is about so much more than your lips and tongue—it’s about your eyes, your torso and, most importantly, your hands. Cupping your hands around her face as you kiss her makes her feel loved and adored; slipping your hand around the back of her head and sliding your hands into the hair at the nape of her neck will give her shivers of pleasure; and sliding one hand sexily right into the small of her back as you pull her waist toward you will make her feel dominated as well as womanly. Put your hand just below her hip so that your thumb is almost, very nearly touching the outer area of her pubic region, and that teasing effect will have her wanting you even more. Slide your hand up the side of her body, keeping your hand further toward the back of her body with just your thumb close to her breast and let it graze the outside of her breasts as you do so, and all the nerve endings in her breasts will be alert and at the ready.
She’s yours. ;)
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