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Showing posts with label flirt. Show all posts
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Feb 28, 2011

Giving compliments

   Giving compliments is easiest and best way to tell your woman how special is she. You don’t have to be genius to give compliment, it only have to be in right time and said in right way. Think about how you feel when someone give you compliment… this few words boost you up so give compliments to women. It will help you in your flirt stage and it will lift sexual confidence. 

   Compliments build self-esteem and in some way we are all addicted to receive good compliments. Take giving compliments as another weapon in your arsenal.  This is stupid but some people value their self based on received compliments and you can take this as your advantage and increase her self-value just by giving her few nicely words told in right moment. It is important that you don’t push too hard with compliments; you don’t have to give millions of compliments it may be few but worthy. If you know with words you can be magician in communication because right words at right time can change your life generally. Women like to hear nice things about them so go use it in your interest. When you say compliment to her it must be direct and smooth, you must tell it with attitude so your compliment will get right power to boost her.  When you push with compliments it can lead that you look needy and she will see you as beggar; you don’t want that. If woman is beautiful in general don’t compliment that because every other man does it, be original and give compliment about details on her (like nails, hair, neck, robe…).

   Compliments are maybe the powerful thing because when you build self-esteem of another person by giving compliment at the same time you build yourself confidence because you manage that other person feels great just by this words you told. This is not way to her pants, this is just help to improve picture about you.

Feb 14, 2011

Conversation is crucial element for successful flirt

    Many people have problem whit starting conversation especially if it is with someone who attracts you and successful conversation is one of the crucial elements of successful flirting. In order to achieve successful conversation you first need to overcome your fear. Don’t let your fear cripple you and stop you to meet your next sex partner or just friend. When you wish to meet someone don’t fear it, enjoy it, just relax and be spontaneous. You must learn and improve your conversational skill and only way to it is by practicing. 

     Important thing is that you must avoid silence (it kills the mood) and don’t ask too many questions and don’t make your questions sounds like you make interview.  Conversation is your attacking tool so you must control way of conversation and don’t forget to monitor non-verbal signs (reactions and body language). In conversation flirt eye contact is something you simply MUST DO but you have to say I WANT YOU whit your look and you must be confident. It is all about attitude. Conversation must be fun because you must be interest speaker and not boring, and when you make her smile you are on half way to success, be creative and create your unique style of humor. 

    There are so many topics to discus so avoid topics like politic or religion because they might cause you problems. You must learn and improve your conversational skill and only way to it is by practicing. Look for opportunities to practice and exercise your skills. Every time when you start conversation whit someone new it must seems to be natural and pleasant and always presented with smile.

Leave your EGO beside, don’t involve him.

Jan 12, 2011

It Is Time To Approach

   You’ve clocked a woman you’d like to get to know better, and you want to show her you’re interested, so you smile. Great move—just make sure you give it your all. That first smile is like the kick off at a football,it sets the tone for the rest of the game. For a fighting chance, you need to put some effort into it; a half-hearted, close-mouthed smile just won’t cut it. Instead, make sure your message is clear—when you crack a genuine smile, you show your teeth and all your facial muscles are involved. By one study from social anthropologist Helen Fisher teeth-flashing smile, along with raised eyebrows, is a universally recognized signal of sexual interest. beside a smile, the double take is the single most effective nonverbal move you can master. Catch her eye, look away, then look back within just a few seconds, and it’s like saying, “I can’t believe how sexy you are”.  Make sure you hold her gaze for just a few seconds longer than would normally beconsidered polite on the second look, and now flash her that warm smile. Doing this is a real ego boost for the woman. If she doesn’t respond, you just go back to whatever you were doing, but if she does react positively, your pathway is clear for approach. 

   If the woman you’ve set your sights on is a colleague or a friend of a friend, there are other nonverbal ways you can increase your potential attraction. Get your handshake right, she knows that if she goes to bed withyou, those hands are going to be all over her, so hygiene of hands is very imoprtant becous it's is largely due subconscious assessment of your hygiene, your fingers will be touching her in places where germs and bacteria are easily transferred. 
                                                                                                                        
Look of lust? Recognize it!
   Studies of women and their interactions with men have show that flirtation has the same pattern in any lowers her chin, raises her eyes, and covers her face as she laughs. Once you’re talking, checkout her eyes—is she blinking a lot? It’s not because she’s got something in her eye, it’s because she likes you, Blinking is a sure sign of attraction. Studies have revealed that women blink more times per minute when they find a man sexy. Keep looking at her eyes for more clues: where she moves them when looking at your face is good indicator of attraction, too. We all look at people’s mouths when we talk, but with someone we’re attracted to, we do it more often. If her eyes move from yours down to your mouth, back up and back downagain rather than just occasionally wandering to your mouth, then you could be in for a good night. Be aware, though, if you’re in a loud venue, she may just be lip-reading!


Approaching tricks
   Bars and pubs are full of partner-hungry people—you can almost smell the desperation in the air. Instead, approach women in places they don’t expect it. Here are some places to try:

  • ·         Department stores/unisex clothes shops
Shops are a virtually untapped date resource. The only men seen there are usually sitting outside the changing rooms looking miserable, and yet meeting a woman is easier here than in a bar or pub.

The trick:
Ask her advice and explain that you’re buying something for your sister or another female relative. This letsher know you’re single, otherwise you’d have asked your girlfriend/wife for advice, and it gives you an opportunity to engage her in conversation.

  • ·         Music concerts
Having a common interest gives you an opportunity to talk to each other, plus it gives you a great excuse to ask her on a second date—to another concert.

The trick:
Before you head out to a concert with the aim of meeting a woman, research other similar events or bandsplaying in the near future so that you can ask her to join you.

  • ·         Salsa class
A higher ratio of women to men attend dancing classes and the sexy, close style of salsa is a great way to break down barriers and get comfortable with strangers.

The trick:
Learn some of the moves at a small salsa class, then move to a bigger group. Showing her you’ve got some level of skill will impress her and make you look smoother on the dance floor. 

  • ·         Walking the dog
Men who care about animals are seen as being more caring overall—something women look out for.

The trick:
Ask her about her dog. Or, if she doesn’t have one, tell her about yours. Don’t do this if you’re in a secludedwoman in a place like that is just plain scary.


   Not every woman you meet would like to lock lips with you, but the biggest complaint from single women is that men don’t ask.

   Spend some time watching other men and women interact with each other and observe body language
There are some  days when single women are more likely to find you attractive. Studies have shown that when women are at their most fertile—14 days before the first day of their period—they are also at their most easily aroused. And a study in Austria assessed how much clothing women were wearing when going out to a nightclub at different times of the month. They were found to wear far more revealing clothing at their most fertile time of the month. 

  Development of relationship creates a chance for you and involve you in the game.
  You are one step far from the ART OF SEX.

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Jan 10, 2011

Start flirting with silent signals

  Everything starts with flirting, flirt is crucial thing that leeds to act of sex. Without flirting you can't make connection and relationship of any kind and ther is no sex.


   Every day you will pass at least by one beautiful woman who would consider getting naked with you. Open your eyes a little wider and you might just see her. Experts say that most womendecide whether they’d like to get naked with you in first 4 minutes of meeting you. There are now more single men and women than ever before. So what’s going on? Well, you give off the wrong signals a lot of the time; even when you’ve got that right, you lack the ability to read her subtle signals. Lack  of reading non verbal signals results in hundreds, if not thousands, of missed opportunities. 


   In one study undertaken by the BBC, men were twice as likely to categorize facial expressions incorrectly when compared with women. And yet, when scientists assessed what women were checking out when they met a man, 55 % of their first impression was based on body language, 38 %on the tone and speed of your voice, and a paltry 7 % what you’re actually saying! 


Silent Signals –non verbal sings of attraction
   You’ve got a few minutes to convince a woman you want the ''job'' and that she should consider you for the role of lover.


   Believe it or not, a woman will try to size up what’s in your underpants in the same way that you check out a woman’s breasts or behind when you see her. Most women had no idea they did this. What is she looking for? A reasonable-sized package of course(average penis size is approximately 15cm (6in))! So get a proper-fitting pair of jeans and give all the girls something to look at.  Remember, your success depends only 7% of what you actually said, and it is over 50% of your body language.


When it come to silent signals it’s all about two divisions:
  • body language
  • wearing


Body language
  If you’re not convinced your package is big enough, don’t worry—there are plenty of other ways you can use your body to attract a woman. The way you stand, for example, will tell her what you’ll be like in bed. One foot behind the other says you’re a bit shy or nervous; a wide leg stance says you’re feeling confrontational; and standing with your feet hip-width apart, facing toward her, says you’re just right. Your back and chest give out even more messages: a stiff, upright posture will make you look like you’ll be unloving and quite possibly uptight; sticking your chest out too far will make you look as though you’ll try to dominate; rounded shoulders make you look lacking in confidence; and letting your stomach hang out makes you look like you just don’t give a s*it. Take a deep breath then exhale, and your shoulders will naturally drop back and down and your chest will fill out; lift your chin a little so that you look confident and open; and only ever put one hand in a pocket—two makes you look like you’re playing with something in there. And to give her even more to look at up top, rather than down below, keep your hair in great condition. Don’t be put off if you haven’t got much of your own hair—a closely shaved head is equally sexy. Touching your shaved head as you talk to a woman is a sexy move. The scalp is an incredibly erotic part of the body—just ask any woman who gets a regular head massage at the hairdresser. Moving your open hand over it, from the nape of the neck upwards, is damned sexy, because it draws her attention to an erotic part of your body, your neck.


Wearing 
  Think about how your clothes feel as well as look, and you’ll find women getting a lot more hands-on with you. How your clothes fit is really important, too. She doesn’t want you to look like you spend hours in front of the mirror—she just wants to see that manly body under all those layers. Best advice is to ask a female friend to come with you to advise. And one final word of warning: be extremely wary of leather clothing. Like fast, red sports cars, leather jackets usually contain unattractive men trying to look good/young/rich.


  Don’t forget your shoes. It is a cliché for good reason, women do judge you by what’s on your feet. Caring  about how the shoes work with the rest of your outfit, and keeping them clean and relatively new-looking, shows that you pay attention to detail. That’s attractive in a man






Giving off “stay away” signals
   Sometimes you inadvertently give out the message that you’d rather not meet a woman—this is never more so than when you’re with a big group of mates. Men in a big group, particularly when they’re laughing loud and hard, are unlikely to find much success (by “success” here is not mean on mauling a drunken girl; it's referring to attracting women wich can make conscious decision. 


  Studies  revealed that men in groups are more competitive and display competitive behavior; this helps to raise testosterone levels, which makes you more aggressive and louder. While these traits might help give you raised status among your male friends, they’re likely to scare potential girlfriends off. If you shake off some mates, you’ll get far more dates.


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