You’ve clocked a woman you’d like to get to know better, and you want to show her you’re interested, so you smile. Great move—just make sure you give it your all. That first smile is like the kick off at a football,it sets the tone for the rest of the game. For a fighting chance, you need to put some effort into it; a half-hearted, close-mouthed smile just won’t cut it. Instead, make sure your message is clear—when you crack a genuine smile, you show your teeth and all your facial muscles are involved. By one study from social anthropologist Helen Fisher teeth-flashing smile, along with raised eyebrows, is a universally recognized signal of sexual interest. beside a smile, the double take is the single most effective nonverbal move you can master. Catch her eye, look away, then look back within just a few seconds, and it’s like saying, “I can’t believe how sexy you are”. Make sure you hold her gaze for just a few seconds longer than would normally beconsidered polite on the second look, and now flash her that warm smile. Doing this is a real ego boost for the woman. If she doesn’t respond, you just go back to whatever you were doing, but if she does react positively, your pathway is clear for approach.
If the woman you’ve set your sights on is a colleague or a friend of a friend, there are other nonverbal ways you can increase your potential attraction. Get your handshake right, she knows that if she goes to bed withyou, those hands are going to be all over her, so hygiene of hands is very imoprtant becous it's is largely due subconscious assessment of your hygiene, your fingers will be touching her in places where germs and bacteria are easily transferred.
Look of lust? Recognize it!
Studies of women and their interactions with men have show that flirtation has the same pattern in any lowers her chin, raises her eyes, and covers her face as she laughs. Once you’re talking, checkout her eyes—is she blinking a lot? It’s not because she’s got something in her eye, it’s because she likes you, Blinking is a sure sign of attraction. Studies have revealed that women blink more times per minute when they find a man sexy. Keep looking at her eyes for more clues: where she moves them when looking at your face is good indicator of attraction, too. We all look at people’s mouths when we talk, but with someone we’re attracted to, we do it more often. If her eyes move from yours down to your mouth, back up and back downagain rather than just occasionally wandering to your mouth, then you could be in for a good night. Be aware, though, if you’re in a loud venue, she may just be lip-reading!
Approaching tricks
Bars and pubs are full of partner-hungry people—you can almost smell the desperation in the air. Instead, approach women in places they don’t expect it. Here are some places to try:
- · Department stores/unisex clothes shops
Shops are a virtually untapped date resource. The only men seen there are usually sitting outside the changing rooms looking miserable, and yet meeting a woman is easier here than in a bar or pub.
The trick:
Ask her advice and explain that you’re buying something for your sister or another female relative. This letsher know you’re single, otherwise you’d have asked your girlfriend/wife for advice, and it gives you an opportunity to engage her in conversation.
Having a common interest gives you an opportunity to talk to each other, plus it gives you a great excuse to ask her on a second date—to another concert.
The trick:
Before you head out to a concert with the aim of meeting a woman, research other similar events or bandsplaying in the near future so that you can ask her to join you.
A higher ratio of women to men attend dancing classes and the sexy, close style of salsa is a great way to break down barriers and get comfortable with strangers.
The trick:
Learn some of the moves at a small salsa class, then move to a bigger group. Showing her you’ve got some level of skill will impress her and make you look smoother on the dance floor.
Men who care about animals are seen as being more caring overall—something women look out for.
The trick:
Ask her about her dog. Or, if she doesn’t have one, tell her about yours. Don’t do this if you’re in a secludedwoman in a place like that is just plain scary.
Not every woman you meet would like to lock lips with you, but the biggest complaint from single women is that men don’t ask.
Spend some time watching other men and women interact with each other and observe body language
There are some days when single women are more likely to find you attractive. Studies have shown that when women are at their most fertile—14 days before the first day of their period—they are also at their most easily aroused. And a study in Austria assessed how much clothing women were wearing when going out to a nightclub at different times of the month. They were found to wear far more revealing clothing at their most fertile time of the month.
Development of relationship creates a chance for you and involve you in the game.
You are one step far from the ART OF SEX.
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